I stumbled upon the viral video “Hantaran 15K”
I have to agree that weddings are super expensive nowadays. I may be wrong but only mas kahwin is our right (mine was RM80!! Haha..) If both sides are spending about half of the cost, isn’t it more logical to lower down the hantaran to help ease the burden on your future husband? After all, you are gonna marry him anyway. If he is in debt, you are too! Married, remember?
I found two sides of the story. Not judging anyone. Whatever done is done.
One little note to my girls out there.. Getting married is not about the wedding. It’s about life after marriage. You will realise that your man loves you when he wakes you up for prayers. You will realise that your man loves you when he tells you to solat with him. And that is because what is more important is your afterlife.
And don’t always look for the right person. Be THE right person to find your right person.
I’m sorry if I ever hurt anyone..
Allah knows best.