Invasion of Little B!!

Bella was unwell for the past few days.. she had blocked nose and cough.. Not too serious, now she’s getting better.. Alhamdullillah..

During her unwell period, she slept with us because she keeps waking up in the middle of the night and we couldn’t cope with the amount of traveling from our room to her room (macam lar jauh sgt..) in the middle of the night.. So, we just let her sleep in our bed..

Unfortunately, up until now, she loves our bed so much. Haih… Every time we put her back in her baby cot, she wakes up and cries.

*insert mommy’s cry here*

We don’t know what to do… Hahaha.. this is like a new challenge for us to put her back to sleep in her bed..

Look how much she loves our bed.. sampai tertonggeng2 tido…

Wish us luck!!!

61 thoughts on “Invasion of Little B!!

  1. hi doc lina, i was wondering why u put ur baby away from u? i read that baby that left, sleeping alone will sumhow develop d feeling of insecurity and will learn to live in their own world, soon become an individualistic adult when they grow up. or im i reading d false statement and fact?huhhu. wallahu’lam.

    1. Hi Iman, just to share, I also train my son to sleep on his own too and I don’t think this would become a problem as to sleep on their own actually teaches them to be independent and less afraid. Insecurity comes if the child is lacking of love, attention and always being put down. If they still receive a lot of attention, love, care and assurance, I believe there should not be any problem ๐Ÿ™‚ Alhamdullillah as of now, my son has no problem socializing and is a happy bundle of joy ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. rasanya sebab ada bau mummy and daddy B kat cadar, jadi B mungkin rasa selesa tidur kat situ. cuba bagi B mummy n daddy blanket or clothes bila pindahkan B to her own bed..

    1. Yes Dr Halina… i would suggest the same thing. Coz that was what i did with all my children. whenever they woke up pun, they would just cry at their bed… and me or my hubby do not need 2 go and see them in their room, we would just pujuk dari jauh…. for them, as long as they could hear our voice pon, dah okay, then, they will continue their sleep…. most of the time…. we just say ‘ssshhhhhhh’ or say ‘mama ada or ayah ada’ ajer pon, dah comfort them…. i dunno abt other parents…. hihihihiiii… gud luck anyway…. ๐Ÿ˜‰

  3. sometimes doc a baby new a sleeping partner because sometimes a baby feel scared if nobody around they… I think better u put the baby bed in ur room… easy for u… and please take a note about news doc…. kalau die tersedak ke, tersepit ke… bahaya tuh… I’m here just remind you……..

  4. dr, what i did for my son was i bought a single bed yg kecik and put next to our bed. at least he didnt disturb our comfort zone even though still in the same room. he knows habis minum susu, golek ke katil sendiri..

  5. well your bed must be the very comfortable one. haahhaha. what u can do is to try putting her at her crib once she’s asleep and repeat the whole thing…so that her adaptation turns to the original bed.

  6. Hi Doc Harlina.Love your blog.
    My boy is also having mild cough and running nose. just notice it tonite.
    can u suggest what is the best cough syrup for him? btw he’s the same age with your Bella, was born in June last year.
    Thanks doc

    1. I never give Bella any medication except ubat demam (PCM). For the cough, i just mix honey with lemon added in her water and let her drink to soothe her throat..

      1. hai dr..i noticed my lil bby rayyan also having a flu n cough..my bby now 9moths plus..lemoh tu kita kena perah dalam honey ker??boleh beritahu saya bagaimana caranya??tq very much doc..

      2. Hi Doc, I read everywhere saying that honey is not to be given to baby below 1 yr old due to spores inside them could cause infant botulism. How is it true?

      3. hi,doc..jz a bit cnfuse..i’ve read a lot dat bby under 1 year xboleh mkn madu…bahaya kata nye..so,mmg agk tkejut when u said dat u bg bby B minum honey + lemon..is it safe 4 bby???my bby is same age wif ur cute lil’ B
        =)

  7. gud luck doc…saya rasa mesti boleh…chayok chayok aja aja fighthing…wah…..hahahaha…lov u doc n LItllE b..n also my idol ANGkasawan negara kite..uhuhuhuhu

  8. Salam…Dr. Harlina
    Saya nak tanya sikit soal kesihatan Bella ok la kan
    tp anak saya yg sebaya ngan bella ada mslah la kat kepala dia ada tumbuh2 merah mcm bisul2 la…minta petua..

  9. Salam Dr, aah ya tu. Takut gak kalo tersedak ke, tersepit sorang2 sape nak tolong Bella. Biar la dia tido ngan Dr. Dulu2 akak teringin nak ajar anak tido sendirian. Tapi 2 la, x sampai hati saya sayu sangat dia sorang2 dalam bilik. Especially bila time2 anak-anak x sihat. Ini cuma pendapat akak aje la.
    Bella cakap : “Mummy Bella x nak adik lagi la tunggu la Bella besau”.

  10. Salam Dr. blh explain sket tak… apa effect kat baby kalau seawal umur 1 thn bila demam diberi ubat demam nurofen??

    1. Nurofen metabolizes in the kidney, risau kalu kidney function not well mature in less than a year old kids..

  11. Salam doc, i faced the same problem too… both my daughters age 6 and 3 refuse to sleep in their own room and hubby is not comfortable if both of them sleep with us on our bed. End up, i yang kena tido with the gilrs in their room. Gotta do something to overcome this.. good luck to both of us, doc.. and wishing Bella have a speedy recovery..

  12. hi doctor. i read the above comments and i was like giggles, haha. “i have not married yet but how come i get into this conversation” haha. neway, just to drop by saying that i adore you so much. hehe. i read your blog time to time.
    take care~ love you!

  13. hi doctor. i read the above comments and i was like giggles, haha. โ€œi have not married yet but how come i get into this conversationโ€ haha. neway, just to drop by saying that i adore you so much. hehe. i read your blog time to time.
    take care~ love you!

  14. Dr maybe Bella wants to be near her Mom… ๐Ÿ™‚ Kuatkan semangat and keep on trying to trained her to sleep in her own room…

  15. Hi Dr. Halina, I think semua kids macam tu, when given the opportunity to sleep with their mommy and daddy, they prefer that than sleeping on their own, hence why to train them to sleep by themselves kita kena start awal and must be really persistent. Lately my son pun asyik nak tido on my bed with us since I have allowed him do so a couple of times in the past few weeks.. Padahal bukan seperate room pun, just in his playbed in my room also (which he has been sleeping in since birth). Kena re-train balik lah ni.. The key is persistence ๐Ÿ˜‰ Good luck to both of us ๐Ÿ˜‰

  16. I think it is important for young children to be independent. My son has been sleeping in his own nursery since he was 3 months old (on and off). There were times when I was shattered and brought him into our bed and that was a rather bad call! He hated being in his own cot for quite sometimes but then we used the “disappearing chair routine” (controlled crying technique is a big no no for hubby and I) as advised by my health visitors and he has managed to go to sleep himself since then. Best wishes!

  17. Salam doc, can I use pcm to treat my son running nose (selsema)?? coz u said u dnt advise for any other medication except for pcm?? Pls reply.. Thnx. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Pcm is for fever.. No we dnt give her any mdicine for selesema. It will go off by itself. Unless its bacterial, then baby needs antibiotic. But you need to see a doctor to confirm the diagnosis..

      1. Yes doc, I know pcm is for fever I just wondering if pcm can treat selsema as well… Anyway, thnx for the advice doc, will bring him to d doctor 4 diagnosis… Neway, just wnt to let ya know that bella n my ryan are really look alike… When I look at bella pics 4 d first time I’m so suprise that she has a similar face with my baby (ryan danish)….. Really wish that they can have pic together one day.. Tcare doc.. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. bayi yang tidur bersama ibu bapanya lebih nyenyak berbanding tidur sendiri ๐Ÿ™‚ just share the info ๐Ÿ™‚

      1. andd,,again…kadar degupan jantung bayi yang tidur bersama ibu bapa lebih baik berbanding tidur sendiri
        so,,i think bella should sleep with u and dr sheikh ๐Ÿ™‚
        lgpun,, she’s still a baby kann??hheheh

  18. bayi yang tidur bersama ibu bapanya lebih nyenyak berbanding tidur sendiri ๐Ÿ™‚ just share the info :)andd,,againโ€ฆkadar degupan jantung bayi yang tidur bersama ibu bapa lebih baik berbanding tidur sendiri
    so,,i think bella should sleep with u and dr sheikh ๐Ÿ™‚
    lgpun,, sheโ€™s still a baby kann??hheheh

  19. thniah dr sbb tlah ajr bella brdikari sjak dri kcil… i like ur style how u teach u doter..
    well done n congret!!!!!! hope bella will be a good doter n a sukses girl

  20. doc B sama mcm baby sy..ri2 pon xsihat gak,so tido ngn kami la…bl ltak kat katil die je,mst nangis,kalo ltak time tido pon mst die jaga..dah tido sekali like B la tertonggeng2.

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